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- The characteristics of the new and improved bitch
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1. Kind, feminine yet strong, confident and empowered (subtly)
2. doesn't give up her life,
3. won't chase a man
4. won't let a man think he has a 100% hold on her
5. stand up for herself when he steps over the line
6. knows what she wants but won't compromise herself to get it; doesn't seek others' approval or is afraid of disapproval
7. has a presence of mind and remains cool under pressure and knows when to pull back to do what is in her best interest and an attitude "I don't need to be here" - The one characteristic that is most attractive
- Posing a MENTAL CHALLENGE=not being intellectual, but giving the attitude that you expect to be respected, you relate to him as an equal partner and that you aren't afraid to be without him
- Looks or attitude?
- ATTITUDE!!! The first date is about looks. But when he falls in love, it's about your attitude. It's about whether you can hold your own. Which is all about how you hold yourself.
- What men think when a woman overcompensates
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1. she is desperate
2. she is willing to sleep with all men right away
3. both - What's wrong with overcompensating
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1. Men actually lose attraction, respect and appreciation for the extra effort. Once a man begins to lose respect for a woman because she is wiling to subtly devalue herself, he will also lose the desire to get closer to her.
2. He'd want to see just how far you'd be wiling to bend and he'd immediately start to test the waters; the more malleable you'd become, the more he'd expect you to bend. - How to prevent men from losing interest from overcompensating and what to do at beginning:
- Make him invest time and effort first. Don't give it right up front. Instead, focus on being good company.
- The winning attitude
- Genuinely show him that you'll be an equal partner in the relationship. It's about holding your own in a relationship. Instead of thinking "What I have to offer isn't enough, and who I am isn't enough", think "who I am is enough; take it or leave it. This is me in all my splendor...and it doesn't get any better than this." Believe you are a catch. If someone else doesn't like your confidence, that's their problem. BE UNDERSTATES, BUT ACT LIKE A PRIZE; DON'T BE INSECURE. BE COMFORTABLE IN YOUR SKIN
- What's wrong with being available all the time?
- He sees how you are afraid to be without him and that you have 100% hold on you.
- How to set up your availability
- If you're always available, he sees how afraid she is to be without him and he soon comes to feel as though he has a 100% hold on her. Be more selective about your availability, but consider his prefence for when he'd like to see you so that you can sometimes accomodate it. Get back to him when you're free. See him when it's convenient for you.
- How the rest of your life should be
- Don't lose your friends, don't give up your career, hobbies. don't give up all of your time or bend over backward
- How to act when he doesn't treat you right
- The bitch makes plenty of peeps; bitching the whole way through==> give message that he can't walk all over her. Doesn't mean to be combative, but means taking action to show you're not willing to give up your values==> message=no100% hold
- At the beginning when he doesn't lift a finger
- It has nothing to do with your worth; it means he has nothing to offer you in the future.
- How to give the message that you're not afraid to be alone
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1. He has no clue where the relationship is going and she leaves it like that.
2. She is not interested in his exes and when he brings it up, she looks at her watch - Why men pull back initially
- They want to gauge how much a woman wants or needs a relationship by pulling back a little bit. He'll pull back to see how you will react.
- What NOT to do when a man pulls back
- When you react emotionally ("Why haven't you called me?), it gives him a feeling of control. If you react emotionally frequently, over time he will come to see you as less of a mental challenge.
- What TO DO when a man pulls back
- If he can't predict how you'll react, you remain a challenge. It also gives him freedom to breathe. SHOW HIM that you have absolutely no attitude about it. This will make him unsure whether you need him when he isn't around. It gives him a reason to come your way because he won't see you as needy. ACT AS THOUGH you haven't even noticed; he doesn't feel as though he has a 100% hold on you
- At the beginning should one be humble?
- NO!! You should never put yourself down. Don't talk him out of a compliment. This is the time to be sure of who you are.
- How to act when there are other attractive women
- A woman demeans herself when she compares herself to another woman. So don't let on when you feel threatened by another attractive woman who walks into the room. Pretend not to notice her.
- How important is it to turn him on?
- The key is to get him to stay turned on after he has been satisfied. Less revealing is always better so do not dress to provocatively. Sexy is a woman relying on herself as she is as a woman
- What to do when you're rejected
- Because the bitch loves herself, the bitch doesn't want anyone who doesn't want her. She doesn't grab his ankles and beg for mercy. Her aura says she doesn't want him desperately enough, need him desperately enough, or let him get under his skin enough. She is driving that train effortlessly. Have a sexy devil-may-care attitude. Not only isn't the bitch needy of him, she often isn't focused on him
- Why ignoring is good
- When a man is slightly afraid of losing a woman, his excitement is piqued. To give a man too much reassurance too soon is the same as overwatering a plant. it kills it.