EDU 655
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- 50%
- people will divorce in 6 years or less
- Sequence of Choices
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Cognitive(thought)
Affective(feeling)
Behavior(action) - Two people in a relationship...
- relate to their perception of each other
- No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.
- Eleanor Roosevelt
- Most of us die with our music still inside us.
- Oliver Wendell Holmes
- Carries a strong element of personal risk - can change you and make you re-evaluate your values and where you are
- ACTIVE LISTENING
- Most people don't listen with the intent to understand but with the intent to reply
- LEO BUSCAGALIA
- In order to truly listen, you must become the other person
- LEO BUSCAGALIA
- Viktor Frankl
- EXISTENTIALISM - what is your purpose in life?
- People lose jobs because of bad attitude
- 85%
- person's natural body scent - one of the ways of communicating - attracted or turned off by
- PHEROMONES
- Most important component of Communication Model
- THE RECEIVER(LISTENER)
- Everyone thinks of self as great listener...
- IN REALITY THEY'RE NOT
- Scott Peck
- author of THE ROAD LESS TRAVELED
- Our view of reality is like...
- A MAP WITH WHICH TO NEGOTIATE THE TERRAIN OF LIFE.
- Gestalt
- GERMAN FOR WHOLE OR CONFIGURATION
- HALO EFFECT
- See something you like about another (a single characteristic) that reminds one of self
- drawing a general impression of an individual based on a specific characteristic.
- HALO EFFECT
- DEGREE TO WHICH YOU BELIEVE YOU ARE THE MASTER OF YOUR OWN FATE
- LOCUS OF CONTROL
- INTERNAL PEOPLE
- MASTER OF OWN FATE - IN CONTROL(LOCUS OF CONTROL)
- EXTERNAL PEOPLE
- NO CONTROL OVER DESTINY - OTHERS IN CONTROL (LOCUS OF CONTROL)
- INTENTIONAL BLINDERING OR ORIENTATION
- YOU HAVE BLINDERS ON; PERCEIVE THINGS TO BE ONE WAY(CAN'T THINK OUTSIDE THE BOX) - LIMIT SELF BASED ON PERCEPTION
- 5 LOVE LANGUAGES
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*WORDS OF AFFIRMATION
*QUALITY TIME
*RECEIVING GIFTS
*ACTS OF SERVICE
*PHYSICAL TOUCH - I MESSAGES...
- LESSEN CONFLICT IN A SITUATION
- PYGMALION (GREEK MYTHOLOGY) IN GEORGE BERNARD SHAW'S PLAY...
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"ELIZABETH"
THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A LADY AND A FLOWER GIRL IS NOT HOW SHE BEHAVES BUT HOW SHE'S TREATED - PYGMALION
- SET EXPECTATIONS HIGH AND RESPONSES WILL MEET OR EXCEED THEM
- developed the Gestalt Therapy
- FRITZ PERLS - repeatedly mentions perceptions
- Maslow's hierarchy of needs
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1. physiological needs
2. safety needs/security
3. love and belonging
4. self-esteem
5. self-actualize - ARTHUR COMBS
- THE SELF IS A STAR IN EVERY PERFORMANCE - THE CENTRAL FIGURE IN EVERY ACT
- 4 WINDOWS OF JOHARI
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1.ARENA - take info in/give info out
2.FACADE - not willing to give info out
to everyone(things they don't know-I
know)
3.BLINDSPOT - things I don't know;
others might know
4.UNKNOWN - they don't know - I don't
know - THE IDEAL WINDOW
- A LARGE ARENA
- ALBERT ELLIS
- CAME UP WITH "RATIONAL EMOTIVE THERAPY(RET)"
- main cause/factor of stress
- CHANGE
- "B"(beliefs about specific situations and people in situations)...
- causes "C"(your feelings and behaviors)
- EUSTRESS
- GOOD STRESS
- DISTRESS
- BAD STRESS
- AIR TRAFFIC CONTROLLER
- #1 STRESSED OCCUPATION
- CONFLICT (not ongoing)can build...
- self esteem in a healthy relationship
- "A"(specific situations or people...
- DOES NOT CAUSE "C"(your feelings and behaviors)
- Dr. Hans Selye
- acknowledged FATHER OF STRESS RESEARCH and most responsible for BRINGING THE CONCEPT TO THE PUBLIC'S ATTENTION
- TOP 3 CATEGORIES OF WHICH SOCIAL STEREOTYPES ARE BASED
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GENDER
AGE
RACE