human relations 2 final
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- We fall in love with the person who offers us the fairest exchange.
- equality
- Not attracted to people who give you negative reinforcement.
- byme's law of attraction
- Learn to like people who are associated with positive events or qualities.
- byme's law of attraction
- Attracted to someone who is out temperamental opposite
- complementatry needs
- Can lead to trouble if we want the person to fill the missing parts instead of improving ourselves.
- complementary needs
- Feel attracted to people who give you positive reinforcement
- Byme's law of attraction
- Dislike people associated with negative events or qualities
- Byme's Law of Attraction
- Looking for a person who is like your mother or father
- Parent image
- Someone who fills your expectations of what a partner should do or be.
- Role compatibility
- Trade our positives and negatives in exchange for the other person's positives and negatives
- Equality
- Attracted to someone who has characteristics we admire and would like in ourselves
- complemantary needs
- Tendency to chose someone who lives close to your home
- propinquity
- Likes attract likes
- Homogamy
- You are likely to be attracted to people who you think are the most like you in these areas: physical appearance, mental health, physical health, family background, family stability, and popularity
- Homogamy
- Based on the ideas that we : seek pleasure and avoid pain, are inherently selfish , are happiest when we get what we think we deserve, and try to balance relationships
- Equallity
- Which of the following is not a sign of infatuation
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-fear of rejection
-heartache
-drastic mood swings
-constantly thinking of the person - Infatuation is believed to last for approximately:
- 2 weeks to 2 years
- According to Sternberg's theory of complete love, what are the 3 sides of the triangle that must be in place for the most positive relationship
- intimacy, passion, commitment
- Intimacy according to Sternberg is
-
-sexual attraction
-lust - According to Sternberg, what type of love is lacking intimacy and passion
- empty love
- The more I get to know her, the better she becomes
- stage 1
- one minute I'm sure, the next I'm not
- Stage 1
- I'm jealous
- stage 1
- I'm beginning to see a side of her I've never seen before...and I'm not sure I like it
- stage 2
- I can't believe how great he is...he's just wonderful
- stage 1
- Once I realized she wasn't going to cook all the meals, I realized she wasn't marriage material
- stage2
- I think I'm in love
- stage 1
- We're growing apart
- stage 2
- I can live with the fact that he has a few faults
- stage 3
- She isn't that way when we're alone
- stage 2
- All types of love are positive, because love feels so good it must be positive
- false
- Nurturing or mature love makes a person feel proud and ambitious, not want to give up everything for love like infatuation
- true
- People in romantic love idealize their partners and often can't see any faults in that person
- true
- Most people have a highly romanticized view of love
- true
- most people will be infatuated many times before they find a mature love relationship
- true
- finds joy in separateness as well as togetherness
- love
- grows slowly and steadily
- love
- very selfish in actions
- infatuation
- emotions flow at a fast rate
- infatuation
- aware of the other person's faults, but accepts them as part of the total personality
- love
- tries not to see the other person's faults
- infatuation
- enhanced by time
- love
- makes one feel proud, confident, and ambitious
- love
- May be distrustful of friends
- infatuation
- often pushes people away, jealousy is often present
- infatuation
- The only 100% effective way to prevent pregnancy
- abstinence
- Any method of preventing conception
- contraception
- Pills that prevent pregnancy by stopping ovulation or by changing conditions in the uterus
- oral contraceptives
- A dome that fits over the cervix and holds spermicidal cream or jelly against the uterine entrance to block the passage of sperm
- diaphragm
- A device inserted into the uterus to prevent conception or implantation
- intro-uterine device (IUD)
- A trade name for a surgical hormone delivery system that provides continuous release of progestin, thereby preventing pregnancy for 5 years.
- norplant
- A rubber cap that fits over the cervix, used with spermicide to prevent conception
- cervical cap
- A trade name for an injectable form of progesstin
- depo-provera
- The process of permanently interrupting a person's ability to bear children through surgery
- sterilization
- A sheath worn over the penis during intercourse to contain the semen, to prevent pregnancy. Also helps reduce the risk of STDs
- condom
- A form of contraception that comes in the form of creams or jellies that is inserted into the vagina right before intercourse
- spermicide
- A soft, thin plastic tube with 2 end rings-one that fits over the cervix and one to serve as an anchor outside the entrance of the vagina
- female condom
- Controls the primary and secondary sex characteristics in men. Also aids in sperm production
- testosterone
- The entrance into the uterus
- cervix
- Contains the eggs and controls hormone production in women
- ovaries
- Responsible for primary and secondary sex characteristics in women. It also regulates repoductive functions
- estrogen
- The birth canal. It is also the femal organ for intercourse
- vagina
- The male organ for intercourse
- penis
- A hollow, muscular, pear shaped organ, where the fertilizied egg will grow and develop into a baby.
- uterus
- If pregnancy does not occur, the lining of the uterus prepared during the menstrual cycle is shed in
- menstruataion
- Preparation for a healthy pregnancy begins
- far in advance
- During ovulation, the ovum (egg) is expelled from the ovary and travels through the ___ before it reaches the uterus. This is the area where conception occurs
- fallopian tubes
- Contraceptive methods that physically or chemically obstruct the travel of sperm toward the egg
- barrier methods
- When a woman begins using oral contraceptives, for how long should she use a backup method of birth control
- 1 month
- One disadvantage to using oral contraceptives is
-
-side effects
-Doesn't protect against STDs - Groups that are at high risk for STDs include
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-intravenous drug users
-Anyone who has had previous sexual partners and who has not, since than been tested for STDs
-Having unprotected vaginal, oral or anal sex with your current partner - People can reduce their risk for STDs by
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-avoiding contact with the partner's bodily fluids
-using latex condoms with spermicide
-refusing alcohol or other drugs - What is the most common STD for your age group
- chlamydia
- Sores or chancres around the genitals are caused by
- herpes
- Untreated chlamydia infections can lead to
- sterility
- The human papilloma virus (HPV or genital warts) can cause
- cancer of the cervix
- Antibiotics are only effective for the STDs that are
- bacterial
- What are some common signs a person may be infected with an STD
-
-abdominal cramping
-painful urination
-no symptoms - 1 in ___ teens will acquire an STD
- 3
- This STD is the most common on a college campus
- HPV (genital warts)
- The most common college STD is
- viral
- This STD has 3 stages, the first being a painless sore or chancre on the sex organs, mouth, breasts or hands that will last 1-5 weeks
- syphilis
- which of the following is considered a cure for aids
- AIDS is the acronym for
- Acquire immune Deficiencey Syndrome
- What are some aspects of a relationship couples should consider before having sex
-
-experience
-pregnancy prevention
-STDs - What percentage of teens will be involved in an abusive dating relationship by the time they graduate high school
- 60%
- What is jealousy commonly mistaken for in a relationship
-
-love
-frustration
-mistrust - Violence is often excused as being
-
-stress
-an act of anger
-a misunderstanding - Domestic violence is defined as
- a person abusing someone in which they are in a relationship
- The cycle of violence includes
- growing tension, violence, honeymoon
- the 4 types of domestic violence are
- verbal, sexual, physical, emotional
- ____is often the worst result of long-term domestic violence for the victim
- murder
- common excuses for using violence from the abuser could be
-
-she/he made me mad
-refusal of sexual advances
-alcohol or other drugs - which is not a form of dating violence
- none of the above
- If a child is abused growing up, or witnesses a parent being abused they are ___ likely to be an abuser as an adult
- more
- In the cycle of violence, the honeymoon stage may include which actions by the abuser
- abuser may apologize for the abuse
- according to MSU's safe place, ___ to ___ percent of the college student population has experienced relationship violence
- 25 to 30
- In 1998, the US Deparment of Justice found that the percentage of dating violence for teenage girls was ___ than adults
- higher
- What are some things you could do to help a friend in an abusive situation
- Express your concerns
- On average a victim of domestic violence will try to leave the relationship ___times
- 7
- In the state of Michigan you must be ___ years old to legally consent to sex
- 16
- Which factor does not allow a person to legally consent
-
-being under the influence of drugs or alcohol
-being mentally impaired
-being in a coma or sleeping - If you are convicted of a sex crime in the state of Michigan, you will be on the sex offender registry for ___ years
- 25
- What does the 1996 drug induced rape prevention and punishment Act say
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-It makes it a felony to give an unsuspecting person a date rape drug, with the intent to commit violence
-Large fines
-can put someone in prison for up to 20 years - Sexual harassment, penalty is $500 fine and/or up to 2 years in prison
- 4th degree
- date rape situation -penetration, with coercion, 15 years
- 3rd degree
- Penetration, with a weapon, coercion, additional felony involved, penalty is ife in prison
- 1st degree
- Molestation, child pornography, contact, no penetration, 15 years
- 2nd degree
- A person can be charged with criminal sexual conduct if there wasn't sexual intercourse. Oral sex counts as penetration
- true
- Females cannot be charged with statutory rape
- false
- date rape drugs typically cannot be detected in blood or urine tests(they can but the person needs to be tested right away and most are not)
- true
- because of the 1996 drug induced rape prevention and punishment act, the use of date rape drugs is declining
- false
- forcing someone to have sex is ok if they are dressed inappropriately or have a bad reputation
- false
- rape is never a consequence
- true
- a person can not be convicted of csc if both people were drinking
- false
- the use of coercion techniques to get another to engage in sexual activity is illegal
- true
- The most dangerous time for a woman involved in a domestic violence relationship is when she tries to leave
- true
- abusers often have low self-esteem
- true
- violence can take on may forms and can happen many times or only once in awhile
- true